Monthly Archives: November 2011

Graciasgiving

Sending wishes to all our family and friends across the globe. We are celebrating another tropical Thanksgiving in Puerto Rico. Today will include some tv time, a run in the sunshine, lots of phone calls, a dinner with over 100 of our deployed service members (NO – I’m not preparing that one) and some cooking and baking as my turkey will make his debut tomorrow.

While I am busy in the kitchen, I have some guest bloggers on hand today. Enjoy this unedited version of :

5 THINGS I AM GRATEFUL FOR

CAITLYN

If you ask someone what they are thankful for they will give you the obvious: clothes, family, a roof over your head, food, and being alive. But what about the little things in life that go un-noticed?

  1. My Fingers – without them I would be unable to write or be able to do my 9′s times tables.
  2. Pictures – these are snapshots of some of the most memorable times in your life, good or bad, that are cherished forever.
  3. Socks – if I did not have socks I would have many painful blisters and my shoes would smell horrific.
  4. Toothbrush/Toothpaste – no one likes to talk to someone with smelly breath.
  5. Books – they let you escape into your own little world as you imagine what your life would be like if you were the characters.

No one ever thinks to themselves “thank you for my socks,” or “I am so fortunate to have pictures,” but imagine if one day all the little things in life disappeared.

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VICTORIA

  1. Getting to live in a hotel on a tropical island.
  2. The chance to learn Spanish.
  3. All the Turkeys who died for us today.
  4. My phone and other electronics.
  5. My clothes, soccer cleats and soccer uniform.

AND my awesome parents for giving me everything on this list (except the Turkeys dying.)

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GRACE

Let it be known that this was written carefully in beautiful cursive handwriting.

I am thankful for

  1. a loving family.
  2. a roof over my head no matter where it is.
  3. the beautiful clothes I get to wear.
  4. going to bed every night and not being hungry
  5. and having great friends and family that surround me.

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HARRISON

I am thankful…

  1. that I’m not a hobo
  2. that I have a family
  3. that I have the greatest mom in the uenyvers
  4. that I have a roof over my head
  5. that I am not a turkey or a mashed potato

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From our home to yours…

May you all have good health, good food and socks.

Feliz Graciasgiving!


What’s Cookin’?

Happy Thanksgiving Eve!

We are approaching my FAVORITE holiday of the year! Nope, not my birthday, not Christmas, not the 4th of July. I love everything Thanksgiving. The food. The friends. The family.

But most of all – NO GIFTS.

No giving, no expecting, no disappointing…. it is a holiday to give thanks for the gifts WE HAVE – not the ones WE WANT.

Over the years our little military family has only spent 1 Thanksgiving apart. Now we have shared Christmas, anniversaries and dozens of birthdays across the miles, but somehow this has become our one holiday that has established memories and traditions.

Here were on Wednesday and I am taking a quick break from food preparations and cleaning to put my feet up and compare notes. What are you making?

The kids and the husband all put in requests and my menu is long, but everyone will be happy and I will be relieved of kitchen duty for the rest of the weekend while we live off of leftovers.

My list includes Turkey and Gravy, Ham, (Aunt MaryAnn’s) Sausage stuffing, Roasted potatoes, Sweet potatoes, (Jamie’s) Cranberries, Mashed Cauliflower, Sweet & Sour Green Beans, Apple-nut salad, Home baked bread, Chocolate Chip cookie bars, (Miss Diane’s) Peanut Butter Balls, (Clinton) Carrot Cake, and (Mom’s) Crumb Cake.

So, even though we will be thousands of miles away, our family and friends will be with us around the table!

And…. once the food is packed up, how will we enjoy our vacation time? A Christmas card photo shoot, some shopping, a night-time kayak trip in a bio-luminescent bay, and …. yes, I will admit it….. watching some Razorback football.

Wishing you a Happy Thanksgiving Eve, from my own little pilgrim and indian.

(Where did these sweet babies go and how do I get them back?)

  


The DIVA Half Marathon

Also known as entry for Run Day – Week 14/23.

Whew – only took me a week and a half to recover and find some time to sit down and collect my thoughts on a wonderful race and an even more meaningful week spent with dear friends.

my racing pals in town from Arkansas

THE RACE REVIEW

This year was the inaugural event. I was truly surprised with the organization and local support given to this event.

The Expo - We hit it on Friday afternoon. There were lines and crowds, but it all moved rather quickly. Race goody bags included a tech t-shirt, sunscreen, and a nylon drawstring bag. As we walked around we were handed lots of free treats -  packets of Exedrin, re-usable water bottles, sunscreen, and my favorite – at least $30 worth of Lancome makeup. I didn’t even take it personally that they gave Caitlyn lip gloss and gave me wrinkle cream. (okay, maybe it smarted a bit, but the free eyeliner made up for my pain.) The only thing missing from the expo? A vendor selling race supplies – gels, drink powders, body glide, etc. Especially since so many people traveled to this race, if they didn’t bring their own supplies, they would have been out of luck, or scrambling around town trying to find a sporting goods store. (Local San Juan tri and bike shops – take note – and get a booth for 2012)

The Course – Hard, but enjoyable. One might think that a beach front race would be flat, but they couldn’t be more wrong. The race was hilly (and due to the local climate – Hot and Humid.) I enjoyed all of the twists and turns, it kept the course interesting and any boredom at bay. The only complaint would be the few sections that crossed over the cobblestones of Old San Juan, which where very slick from the early morning rain. While some of the run was on highway, not offering too much to look at, other portions were very beautiful.

view of El Morro after mile 1

Crowd Support - OUTSTANDING! There were loud cheers and lots of upbeat music. Every aid station had plenty of water and Gatorade, as well as lots of people volunteering. Not to brag, but I had the best support crew and personal photographers on the course.

this bunch arose at 4:15 am

The Bling - Just before the finish line, runners were handed a pink boa and a tiara. The Medals (which were presented by young, muscular, shirtless men – think Abercrombie, the Puerto Rico version) were very impressive – big and bedazzled.

The Host Hotel – While I didn’t personally stay here (my home is just a few miles away) it was a beautiful location and facility. The pools and lagoon offered a tranquil setting for beach yoga, and the hot tubs were great for achy muscles. The expo was on site and the start and finish were just a few minutes walk. The only downside was that the only inexpensive food options were Starbucks or Subway, all the other restaurants offered fancy, expensive fare.

MY RACE

2:54

There were many years that I would have been mortified by my time. I wouldn’t have shared it, especially not publicly like this. I mean, I have friends who run full marathons faster than my half time. Geez - 2 years ago I ran almost an hour faster than this half time. I suppose that sometimes you have to be taken far onto the other side to appreciate what you have.

Seven or eight months ago I was barely walking a mile or two. My fingers and toes felt as if they had been broken. Daily chores of opening a can, writing a letter or carrying a coffee mug across the room without dropping it were challenging. The stresses associated with moving and the increased sun exposure here in our tropical home, had my Lupus flaring. I was miserable. I had given up all thoughts of running. As the months went on and my symptoms improved I was ready to start setting some new goals.

As you have read over the months, I have slowly worked my way up to double-digit runs.

I enjoyed the race for everything that it was. A celebration of women and their accomplishments. A celebration of friendship. A celebration of strength and stamina. I never once felt defeated. I felt lucky.

My pre-race included a few short runs during the week – 2 or 3 miles each. Pre-race hydration at the Bacardi Rum Factory on Friday. A walking tour of El San Juan on Saturday (not always the wisest move the day before a race, but we were trying to fit a lot of fun into this San Juan visit.)

And then I did a few things that I NEVER do during a distance race. My regular running friends may want to look away, as I broke many, many rules.

1) I wore new shoes. Not just a new version of my usual shoes – but a new brand, and style. Here was my thought process. I was having Plantar Fasciitis issues. I think the shoes I have been wearing and training in are not working for me. I could see the treads on the bottom were wearing unevenly. So I got shoes with different support in them. I KNEW that my feet would hurt if I wore my regular shoes. So the worst thing that would happen if I wore new shoes? My feet would hurt. What did I have to lose? In the end, I still had foot pain, but it did not get worse as the miles wore on. I ended up with 2 blisters. I think I won out on this risk – BUT I DO NOT SUGGEST THIS.

2)I changed my eating/diet for the 2 weeks leading into the race. Dramatically. I will save this entire eating experiment for a post of its own, but to sum up, I have given up many foods in an effort to decrease the inflammation of the autoimmune diseases in my body. I am trying to impact my over-all health and decrease pain through lifestyle rather than additional medications. (The jury is still out if it is working or not.) The problem is that the foods removed from my diet, left only fruits and vegetables (no potatoes or beans) as my sources of carbs. I also removed all added sugar. This backfired in 2 ways. I don’t think I had enough stored energy for 13 miles. My shorter workouts have been great, but I really fizzled out over the long haul. I also got very sick to my stomach from the gels and Gatorade. I didn’t tolerate the intense sugar very well.

3) I didn’t have a plan. I always have a system of running / walk breaks / nutrition mapped out in my head before every race, especially longer ones. I started off with my friend Debbie – thinking I would run and chat with her and see how it went. A few steps into the race she dropped her water bottle and tried to retrieve it. I jumped to the side to wait for her. And there it fell apart. She went by me, but I didn’t see her. I spent the first 4ish miles sprinting ahead to see if she got ahead of me, and then standing around each water stop to let her catch up. This sprint, stop, sprint, stop, was not productive. I never did find my dark-haired friend dressed in black and pink in this Puerto Rican all women’s race – I thought I found her dozens of times – but no such luck. I never really got my rhythm during the race. Throwing on my iPod around mile 6 helped me out. But, I will never go into a race without a plan again. I prefer to feel in control rather than feeling like fatigue, thirst or pain are setting the pace.

What went right? My brain. I was in a good place.

The starting line was energetic. We were sprinkled with a tropical rain. And then the sun rose behind us as we ventured up the hills of San Juan.

the sunrise

Running through Old San Juan reminded me of my many visitors over the last 10 months. I have loved exploring this city with so many friends and family.

 

Heading back toward the start at mile 5 I knew my gang would be waiting for me. There’s nothing like hearing “I see mom!” to put some spring in your step.

mile 5

Usually I would dread highway running, but I was actually amused. First I had some rocking tunes on my daughter’s shuffle – so glad she has eclectic musical taste. During miles 6-10 I was the Dancing Queen, I did the Mambo #5, I was Never Fully Dressed Without a Smile, I had Two Pina Coladas, one for each hand and MC Hammer Could not touch this! And, besides my fun run / walk / dance… the thoughts that had me chuckling were how often I drive these same roads, and curse the traffic. Swearing that I could run faster than driving. And there I was, running instead of driving. It was soooo much better than traffic!

At mile 9 I hit familiar territory. The local hospital. I spent a lot of time in this part of town during my husband’s recent surgery. I gave thanks for his health. I reflected on my own. There is nothing more valuable.

The last few miles should have been the hardest. But I took a walk down memory lane. As my Garmin hit 1:57 – my half marathon PR –  I reminisced about that race. How strong I felt that day, the thrill of finally going under 2 hours, the friends that ran by my side. Then as the clock ticked away, I remembered 2:01, 2:04, 2:10, 2:16……. On and on I remembered my first half, and my races through Walt Disney World, and Little Rock, and New York City…. The minutes and miles flew by.

  

14 half marathon memories later and I was right back where I started. I had my children running by my side, a pink boa stuck to my sweaty shoulders and a tiara tangled in my wind-blown curls. The finish line rewarded with a shiny medal and a glass of champagne. PERFECT!

So – there you have it, I had a pretty lousy day physically, but a wonderful day mentally. It was my first race in 9 months. I loved being back in the company of other runners. As long at the Air Force keeps us here through 2013, and my body continues to cooperate, I will be found on the DIVA starting line on 11-11-12!

finished!

And if all my descriptions of a well organized race, fun course and beautiful setting are not enough to convince you to join me next year, maybe this will:

5k winner at the award presentation


Art

The holidays are approaching and I am making my lists and checking them twice.

If you are looking for a one-of-a-kind gift for the kids in your life, I can help you with the holidays, baby showers, birthdays, baptisms, etc.

  

Don’t forget about your favorite teachers. Order a customized hanging for their classroom door in school colors, or to coordinate with a classroom theme.

 

All paintings are acrylic on canvas. The paintings wrap right around the edge, no frames needed.

Check out this friendly dino

 

Even the smallest paintings have many layers of paint, texture and details.

 

I have adjusted all of my painting sizes so that they can be mailed in US Post Office Priority Mail boxes. Here are some ideas……

STRETCHED CANVAS

10×20, 8×16, 8×10, 9×12, 10×10

Display your child’s initials or name

 

Celebrate your favorite team

  

Complement a room theme

 

Welcome a new baby

  

Add tulle or flowers for 3-dimensional fun

  

Use multiple small canvases to create a large wall image.

 

Long, thin canvases are perfect for names and words…

or for unique pictures

   

CANVAS BOARDS HUNG BY RIBBON

Ideal for adding some fun and color to a room or door

  

CANVAS BLOCKS

Great for names, initials or a favorite quote

 

 

 

I can add ribbon to create a bow hanger

SHIPPING

Priority mail shipping, the painting/s  tied with a ribbon and wrapped in white tissue and a note card.

Info needed:

  • Occasion and date needed by (I prefer to have 2 weeks notice)
  • Size requested
  • What you would like on the painting – name/initial/colors/etc.
  • Message for note card
  • Address for shipping

With a quick email, you can arrange for a special, personalized piece of artwork sent to your favorite little ones.

jacquelinewindclinton@yahoo.com


What would you give?

What would you give up to make our country better?

To ensure the freedoms that we often take for granted?

Would you give your life?

Would you do it if you didn’t get any credit at all?

Nothing was more humbling than standing before the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier in Arlington cemetary.

During our recent visit to Washington DC, we finished a very long day here. My exhausted children stood tall and silent as we watched the changing of the guards. June 2011.

Thank you to all who serve – past and present. We understand and empathize with many of the sacrifices military families face, yet still stand in awe and thanksgiving for those who have given their lives for our freedoms.

HERE RESTS IN HONORED GLORY AN

AMERICAN SOLDIER UNKNOWN BUT TO GOD.


Run Day – Week 13/23

13 weeks down – 10 weeks to go!

Ground Running - 15 miles (longest run 5 miles + 60 min deep water run)

Deep Water Running -90 min

Walking – 5 hours

6 days until the Diva 1/2 marathon!

This week friends start flying in to run this all-female race through a beautiful and historic city. (Did you know that San Juan is the oldest city under the US Flag?) I am so happy to have some of my Arkansas running buddies in town – I am hoping that they bring some good running vibes with them. My left heel/foot has been unpredictable and my success next Sunday will rely on whether my foot decides to join the party or fight the fun. My plan for this week is to avoid aggravation - I will stick with the elliptical trainer, strength training and the pool.

Of course I will snap shots along the route – but here is a preview of sights to be seen around Old San Juan:

The Forts

Kites at El Morro

The Governor’s Mansion

The colorful architecture

    

The locals

The churches

   

The coastline

Even if my legs don’t want to cooperate, it is sure to be a beautiful morning!


44 Costumes

14 years and 44 costumes later… I have survived another Halloween in motherhood.

I believe that most Moms go above and beyond when it comes to making holidays special for their children. In my case, an extra dose of “military guilt” goes into my preparations. Yes, the fact that I feel badly that their annual traditions hold little to no continuity what-so-ever, may contribute to my desire to go slightly over-board. Case in point, this year our Halloween lasted for 4 days.

Friday was the school’s assigned day for costumes and celebrations. (How smart, hype and sugar them up on a Friday, rather than a Monday.) I spent Thursday evening baking and packaging so that my little dears would have gluten-free treats to enjoy during their parties. Harry was a hit in his “When I grow up parade” and everyone returned home from school ready to celebrate all weekend long.

Saturday we hosted our squadron Halloween party. Since our beloved group, while high in morale, is low in numbers – we invited a whole bunch of other local Americans to participate in the fun. We had military families, FBI families, DEA families….. let’s just say that the “bad guys” would have had no hope for survival amongst our bunch.  Preparations included costumes, goodie bags,  food, and pumpkins.

Let us begin with the costumes. A Zoo theme was decided upon weeks ago, and with each child agreeing upon 2 or 3 different animal options, I went searching for supplies. (Remember – no Target, Michaels, Hobby Lobby or JoAnn’s to be found.) I lucked out with sale items from The Children’s Place, free shipping from Pottery Barn Teen and a few odds and ends found in drawers and closets in our own apartment.

The results: A Zoo Keeper and a Shark who never did get their photo taken (note – we were a progressive zoo that also contains an aquarium. Also – our Squadron “mascot” is a Shark, so it only seemed fitting…..)

    

Cheetah. Apropos since she is so speedy. The wild cat hair was all her own. The animal print skirt has already been snagged for “real-life wear” by a younger sister.

Owl. Tutus and birds were all the rage this Halloween. I found this magenta tulle skirt for 40% off – so I grabbed 2. Really, I couldn’t have bought the material and done the all the layers for under $16. So – one skirt was worn and the other turned into wings. Add in a pre-made hat, an already owned t-shirt, and cut up boa – and we have a funky owl. She even had a tootsie pop with her all evening. (By The Way: 274 licks to get to the center.)

Panda. She originally wanted to be a flamingo – but fell in love with this cute hat. Again, we went the tu-tu route (the black tulle skirt will come out again and again during the holidays.) Two tu-tus were in order to give our skinny panda  a plump feel.

Gorilla. Want to get a little boy to cooperate and ENJOY getting his picture taken? Dress him like a Gorilla and allow him to get into the character. The kid has read every book in existence involving animal facts and habits. So enjoy his interpretation of a primate.

 

The treat bags were filled with fun goodies – candy, stickers, rubber ducks, pretzels and fruit snacks. All wrapped up as a tissue paper ghosts.

And on to the party food. We kept it simple with a pot luck of chili, hot dogs, and desserts. I thought that I would get creative and jump on the Cake Pop band wagon. Don’t these look so cute on the cover of the magazine? I was ready with cake, icing, candy melts, lollipop sticks….. Seriously, I can hold my own in the kitchen, and I am pretty crafty.

Somewhere along the line, something went wrong. Very wrong. Instead of cute little lollipops, my attempts looked more like goblin droppings. Time for some drizzled icing and mini cupcake wrappers. Here are my NOT Cake Pops.

At the party, there was a pumpkin decorating contest. While it was supposed to be for decorated pumpkins, they are hard to come by in this neck of the woods, so any decorated spherical object was accepted…. coconuts, oranges… creativity was encouraged. Check out ours:

Grace: Black Cat                                      Victoria: Bat

 

Caitlyn: Spider Web                                 Harry: Pirate (with hook)

 

And guess who was the creative gent who came up with this one?????

The party was a success with singing and dancing….. food and drinks. And the highlight of the night? A double elimination tournament of Penny Can. Thank you Cougar Town!

While the party ended Saturday night, it picked back up again on the beach Sunday afternoon. By Sunday evening, we were all beat. But was there rest for the weary?

NO WAY!

After school on the 31st there were soccer tryouts, cross-country practice, and then it was time for Trick or Treating. We were lucky to have friends who invited us to their neighborhood. Even though we live in a hotel on a busy street, my kiddos got to experience a traditional Halloween, in which they knocked on doors and got free candy. My guilt is assuaged for another year.

 

Today I have packed up the decorations and I am resisting the dozens of fun-sized Snickers bars calling me from the kitchen. While most kids spend November and December with visions of sugar plums dancing in their heads, not my boy. With 363 days to go, Harry is already planning next year’s costumes….. “How about Native Americans? We could be practically naked and carry weapons!”

God help me.


Run Day – Week 12/23

Week 12 down.

Ground Running – 26 miles (longest run 11.5-miles)

Weight Training - 20 minutes

It felt great to have an extremely busy week and still have solid runs. I can’t seem to solve my heel issues, but KT tape, anti inflammatories and ice are keeping it manageable.

I was never so happy to see a month end. October was filled with fear, stress and so many unanswered questions. The cool breezes while I ran this morning were a sign of the wind shift. Locals in the Caribbean refer to them as the Christmas Winds. I am hoping this change in weather signals good things to come.

I love a lot of things about running. Clearly, or I wouldn’t have been at it for so long. Aside from the general fitness and runner endorphins, I am a fan of:

  • the committment and follow through.
  • the time to think.
  • the knowledge that even after a bad run, or a disappointing race, the next day holds the promise of your best miles yet.
  • the ability to really see. On your feet, at 5 or 6 miles per hour you SEE SO MUCH MORE than when you are racing through life at 50 mph.

Lately I find myself eagerly looking. Looking for answers and signs of hope. Check out this awesome view on the track last Friday.

I hope November brings normalcy. The kids are settled into school routines. Soccer season is about to begin. We have weeks and weeks of friends and family visiting. And we get to finish the month off with my favorite holiday of the year. Bring on the cranberries and sweet potatoes!

It is 1:00 pm, I am still enjoying that breeze blowing across our island. So – regardless of what November 2nd hands me, today I will just enjoy the fact that I have my balcony doors wide open.


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